My best friend's daughter gave birth to a baby, a lovely little girl. Because the parents of the couple both had jobs, they finally chose a yuezi center near their home. Time 28 days, various packages, the couple chose a mid-range, 48,000 yuan.
What would you think if this was the first time you heard the price? I guess a lot of people can't take it. Especially people who are used to a tight life. To be honest, I couldn't accept it before. Isn't it a month? Why so much money? 60,000 yuan, a year's living expenses for a family.
But, the daughter of this boudoir honey chooses to go to month son center, and be not to ask month sister-in-law, I accept very calm not only still think it is wise choice, the 3rd day borrow those who visit little baby by head to run to inspect one time, preparation when daughter-in-law gives birth to a child in the future also can much a reference. Even though my son doesn't have a girlfriend right now.
This is my second visit to the yuezi center. Although the two visits were not the same place, they were quite different.
The first time to go is a just built yuezi center, not far from the provincial maternal and child health care center, luxury yuezi center building just live three maternal, nurse miss is also new please, first-class environment, very quiet. I go to visit, before entering elevator, ask us to wear disinfection shoe cover, and the clothes that disinfect, feel me to come out from infect an area, can arrive puerpera recuperation place, these disinfect appliance do not need, it is a going through the show.
I didn't look at the facilities. Because during the visit, I am very anxious, lack of maternal milk a little, children do not have enough to eat, the doctor said three hours to feed milk, otherwise affect digestion, didn't eat of the little boy has been hum, hungry is hysterical cry, must be an adult holding the coaxed to quiet sleep for a while, but because didn't eat, sleep is very light, a down just wake up, crying. The couple, both gifted, followed doctors' instructions and watched the time. The child's grandmother was not, watching the grandson crying because of hunger, distressed, and not good and daughter-in-law hard top, in and out of the very anxious, grandmother's anxiety was transmitted to everyone present, let me always want to escape the feeling. Later I heard that many unpleasant things happened during the period of yuezi. The woman was hospitalized for several days because of a high fever. Even the resident doctor joked that the pregnant woman was rich and had no money. After that, I felt that the center of the month is donkey dung egg surface light.
After this, many good friends have become a grandmother or grandmother one after another, some young colleagues are also giving birth to a second child, I continuously in the month sister-in-law and month son center do comparison:
Month sister-in-law, a month at least to 10, 000 yuan, and only responsible for a person to cook and take baby, other all ignore. That is to say, there has to be a babysitter who does the laundry, does the cooking, and so on. The total cost was thirty thousand yuan less, and the family was exhausted. If both mothers come to take care of them, they may have different views on parenting, which need to be balanced. Even if the maternal do nothing, the heart is not quiet.
Even, my two friends in the process of please month sister-in-law, a month sister-in-law suspicion maternal demand is high, at night fed milk, change diaper to wash the ass to the child, deliberately do not cooperate, maternal anger on the month sister-in-law fired squid, but the contract has provisions, no fault master fired people money to give. Another simply is the master do not get used to month sister-in-law look, thought that asked a parenting expert to come back, the result is also what do not understand. Finally also give money to leave.
There is a more terrible statement, that there is an open secret in the circle of month sister-in-law, many of them will secretly have sleeping pills, while the home fell asleep to the children to eat a little, sleep until dawn, everyone can sleep well. Isn't that terrible?
Her please? To the tsukiko center? Nothing seems reassuring. How to choose?
It wasn't until I went to my bestie's daughter's tsukiko center that I finally had an answer. The yuezi center is just on the roadside, and the transportation is very convenient. There are direct buses and special parking lots. The lobby on the first floor is spacious and looks like the clubhouse of an upscale residence. A push to open the door on the hospitality of the reception staff and guide. It's more intimate. The hospital is also on the first floor. You can choose to give birth here and see the beautiful environment there. The estimated cost is higher than the general hospital. After giving birth, you can go upstairs and rest at the confinement center. Maternal or child have what matter can get professional treatment immediately.
Month son center has 3 layers only at present, because also just built a year or so, puerpera is not much, the daughter of boudoir honey oneself lives one layer. The rest of the floor was strictly restricted to the number and time of visitors because there were many mothers, so that the mothers could have a good rest. Parturient women live in a suite, the outside room is a living room, there is a television, through the picture can monitor the baby is not around the mother of every dynamic. No need to shuttle to see the baby. Sitting room still has small freezer, microwave oven, sofa, convenient already visitant personnel won't affect puerpera to rest again. Be asked to disinfect and wash your hands before entering. This affirmation can accept, since come to visit, total unavoidable touch baby.
I was in a relaxed mood, accompanying my bestie to wait on her daughter. The little girl lay quietly in the crib, sleeping all the time. After three hours, she didn't wake up. Perhaps the baby, who was full of milk and had worked hard, was tired and fell asleep again. The room is spacious, the bed is 2 meters wide, there is central air conditioning, very soft, do not feel the wind blowing, the bathroom has drinkable constant temperature hot water for parturient bath (the doctor said that only with cooked water bath, cooked water is boiled after cooling can drink water). The toilet seat is also plugged in. Also arranged puerpera every day with medicine blisters foot, specific is what medicine I did not ask.
After work in the evening, grandma to see daughter-in-law and granddaughter, confined center can eat good meal was served, the two female relatives to communicate with each other, I can go out with girlfriends dinner, take care of a nursing daughter can be so relaxed and happy, whether maternal, or both sides of the parents, was spent in the relaxed happy atmosphere. It's a wonderful thing.