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闺蜜的女儿生宝宝了,是个可爱的小姑娘。因为小两口的父母都有工作,最后选择了一个离家很近的月子中心做月子。时间28天,各种套餐,小两口选择了一个中档的,48000元。

如果你是第一次听到这个价格,你会怎么想?我估计很多人接受不了。尤其是过惯紧日子的人。说实话我之前是无法接受的。不就是做个月子吗?怎么会这么多钱?6万元,一家人一年的生活费用啊。

但是,这次闺蜜的女儿选择去月子中心,而不是请月嫂,我不仅很平静的接受还认为是明智的选择,第三天就借着探望小宝宝的由头跑去考察了一番,预备将来儿媳妇生孩子的时候也可以多一个参考。虽然我儿子目前连女朋友都没有。

这是我第二次考察月子中心,两次去的虽然不是同一个地方,可感受竟然相差非常多。

第一次去的是一个刚刚建好的月子中心,距离省妇幼保健院不远,豪华的月子中心整栋楼才住了三个产妇,护士小姐也都是新请的,环境一流,很安静。我去探视,在进电梯前,要求我们穿消毒鞋套,和消毒的衣服,感觉我是从传染区出来的,可到了产妇休养的地方,这些个消毒用具都不需要了,看来就是个走过场。

设施我没怎么考察。因为整个探视期间,我很焦虑,产妇的奶水有点不足,孩子吃不饱,医生说三个小时才能喂一次奶,否则影响消化,没吃饱的小男孩一直在哼哼,饿急了就歇斯底里的哭,必须大人抱着哄着才能安静地睡一会儿,但因为没吃饱,睡的很轻,一放下就醒,就大哭。产妇两口子都是高材生,他们严格遵从医嘱,看着时间喂奶。孩子的奶奶则不然,看孙子饿的直哭,心疼坏了 ,又不好和儿媳妇硬顶,出出进进的非常焦虑,奶奶的焦虑时刻传递给我们在场的每一个人,让我总有想逃离的感觉。后来听说月子期间还发生了很多不愉快的事情。产妇因为高烧不退还住院了几天。连住院科医生都调侃产妇是有钱的主得了没钱人的病。那次过后,我深感月子中心是驴粪蛋表面光。

这之后,很多好朋友都陆陆续续的当了姥姥或奶奶,一些年轻的同事也在生二胎,我则不间断的在月嫂和月子中心做着对比:

月嫂,一个月最少也要1万元,而且只负责给产妇一个人做饭和带宝宝,其他一概不管。也就是说,还得有一个类似保姆的人每天伺候着洗衣买菜做饭等等。总费用也得小三万,一家人都累的够呛。如果双方的母亲都过来照顾,因为育儿观不同,还会闹意见,这些都需要产妇去平衡。即使产妇什么都不做,心里也得不到安宁。

甚至,我的两个朋友在请月嫂的过程中,一个月嫂嫌产妇要求高,夜里喂完奶,换完纸尿布要给孩子洗屁股,就故意不配合,产妇一生气就炒了月嫂的鱿鱼,可合同有规定,没有过错主家炒人钱要照给。另外一个干脆就是主人看不惯月嫂做事的样子,以为请了一个育儿专家回来,结果竟也是啥都不懂。最后也是给钱走人。

还有一个更可怕的说法,说月嫂圈子里有一个公开的秘密,他们很多人都会偷偷的备着安眠药,趁主家睡着给孩子吃一点点,一觉到天亮,大家都能睡个好觉。这也太可怕了吧?

请月嫂?去月子中心?好像没有什么是让人放心的。到底该怎么选择?

直到我去了闺蜜女儿的月子中心,我才终于有了答案。这家月子中心就在路边上,交通很方便,有公交车直达也有专门的停车场。一楼大堂很宽敞,看着好像高档住宅的会所。一推开门就有接待人员热情招呼和引领。比较亲切的感觉。医院也在一楼,可以选择在这里生孩子,看那里优美的环境,估计费用要比一般医院高,可一般的妇幼保健院,生孩子的人太多,医生根本忙不过来。这里生完孩子观察一下就可以上楼去月子中心休息。产妇或孩子有什么事可以马上得到专业的处理。

月子中心目前只有三层,因为也是刚建好一年左右,产妇并不多,闺蜜的女儿自己住一层。其他层因为有多名产妇,被严格限制探视人数和时间,以便产妇能好好休息。产妇住的都是一个套间,外间是客厅,有电视,通过画面可以监控宝宝不在妈妈身边的时候的每一个动态。不需要穿梭来往的去看宝宝。客厅还有小冰箱,微波炉,沙发等,既方便探视人员又不会影响产妇休息。进去之前被要求消毒洗手。这个肯定能接受,既然来探望,总免不了触碰到宝宝。

我在这里陪着闺蜜伺候她闺女,心情很放松。小姑娘很安静的躺在婴儿床里,一直在睡,三个小时到了还不醒,妈妈就轻轻的拍打着弄醒宝宝,然后美美的吃上一顿大餐。大概是奶水很足,使出吃奶的劲儿的宝宝,吃完也累了,又睡着了。房间宽敞,床有2米宽,有中央空调,很柔和,没有感觉到有风在吹,卫生间有可以饮用的恒温热水给产妇洗澡用(医生说只能用熟水洗澡,熟水就是烧开后放凉的可以喝的水)。马桶盖也是插电的。还安排产妇每天用药材煮水泡脚,具体是什么药材我就没有细问了。

晚上下班后,奶奶赶过来看望儿媳妇和孙女,月子中心订好的饭菜正好端上来可以吃,两亲家母互相交流一下,我就和闺蜜出去吃饭了,照顾一个坐月子的女儿可以这么轻松愉快,不管是产妇,还是双方的父母,都在轻松愉快的氛围中度过。真是一件非常美好的事情。

My best friend's daughter gave birth to a baby, a lovely little girl. Because the parents of the couple both had jobs, they finally chose a yuezi center near their home. Time 28 days, various packages, the couple chose a mid-range, 48,000 yuan.

What would you think if this was the first time you heard the price? I guess a lot of people can't take it. Especially people who are used to a tight life. To be honest, I couldn't accept it before. Isn't it a month? Why so much money? 60,000 yuan, a year's living expenses for a family.

But, the daughter of this boudoir honey chooses to go to month son center, and be not to ask month sister-in-law, I accept very calm not only still think it is wise choice, the 3rd day borrow those who visit little baby by head to run to inspect one time, preparation when daughter-in-law gives birth to a child in the future also can much a reference. Even though my son doesn't have a girlfriend right now.

This is my second visit to the yuezi center. Although the two visits were not the same place, they were quite different.

The first time to go is a just built yuezi center, not far from the provincial maternal and child health care center, luxury yuezi center building just live three maternal, nurse miss is also new please, first-class environment, very quiet. I go to visit, before entering elevator, ask us to wear disinfection shoe cover, and the clothes that disinfect, feel me to come out from infect an area, can arrive puerpera recuperation place, these disinfect appliance do not need, it is a going through the show.

I didn't look at the facilities. Because during the visit, I am very anxious, lack of maternal milk a little, children do not have enough to eat, the doctor said three hours to feed milk, otherwise affect digestion, didn't eat of the little boy has been hum, hungry is hysterical cry, must be an adult holding the coaxed to quiet sleep for a while, but because didn't eat, sleep is very light, a down just wake up, crying. The couple, both gifted, followed doctors' instructions and watched the time. The child's grandmother was not, watching the grandson crying because of hunger, distressed, and not good and daughter-in-law hard top, in and out of the very anxious, grandmother's anxiety was transmitted to everyone present, let me always want to escape the feeling. Later I heard that many unpleasant things happened during the period of yuezi. The woman was hospitalized for several days because of a high fever. Even the resident doctor joked that the pregnant woman was rich and had no money. After that, I felt that the center of the month is donkey dung egg surface light.

After this, many good friends have become a grandmother or grandmother one after another, some young colleagues are also giving birth to a second child, I continuously in the month sister-in-law and month son center do comparison:

Month sister-in-law, a month at least to 10, 000 yuan, and only responsible for a person to cook and take baby, other all ignore. That is to say, there has to be a babysitter who does the laundry, does the cooking, and so on. The total cost was thirty thousand yuan less, and the family was exhausted. If both mothers come to take care of them, they may have different views on parenting, which need to be balanced. Even if the maternal do nothing, the heart is not quiet.

Even, my two friends in the process of please month sister-in-law, a month sister-in-law suspicion maternal demand is high, at night fed milk, change diaper to wash the ass to the child, deliberately do not cooperate, maternal anger on the month sister-in-law fired squid, but the contract has provisions, no fault master fired people money to give. Another simply is the master do not get used to month sister-in-law look, thought that asked a parenting expert to come back, the result is also what do not understand. Finally also give money to leave.

There is a more terrible statement, that there is an open secret in the circle of month sister-in-law, many of them will secretly have sleeping pills, while the home fell asleep to the children to eat a little, sleep until dawn, everyone can sleep well. Isn't that terrible?

Her please? To the tsukiko center? Nothing seems reassuring. How to choose?

It wasn't until I went to my bestie's daughter's tsukiko center that I finally had an answer. The yuezi center is just on the roadside, and the transportation is very convenient. There are direct buses and special parking lots. The lobby on the first floor is spacious and looks like the clubhouse of an upscale residence. A push to open the door on the hospitality of the reception staff and guide. It's more intimate. The hospital is also on the first floor. You can choose to give birth here and see the beautiful environment there. The estimated cost is higher than the general hospital. After giving birth, you can go upstairs and rest at the confinement center. Maternal or child have what matter can get professional treatment immediately.

Month son center has 3 layers only at present, because also just built a year or so, puerpera is not much, the daughter of boudoir honey oneself lives one layer. The rest of the floor was strictly restricted to the number and time of visitors because there were many mothers, so that the mothers could have a good rest. Parturient women live in a suite, the outside room is a living room, there is a television, through the picture can monitor the baby is not around the mother of every dynamic. No need to shuttle to see the baby. Sitting room still has small freezer, microwave oven, sofa, convenient already visitant personnel won't affect puerpera to rest again. Be asked to disinfect and wash your hands before entering. This affirmation can accept, since come to visit, total unavoidable touch baby.

I was in a relaxed mood, accompanying my bestie to wait on her daughter. The little girl lay quietly in the crib, sleeping all the time. After three hours, she didn't wake up. Perhaps the baby, who was full of milk and had worked hard, was tired and fell asleep again. The room is spacious, the bed is 2 meters wide, there is central air conditioning, very soft, do not feel the wind blowing, the bathroom has drinkable constant temperature hot water for parturient bath (the doctor said that only with cooked water bath, cooked water is boiled after cooling can drink water). The toilet seat is also plugged in. Also arranged puerpera every day with medicine blisters foot, specific is what medicine I did not ask.

After work in the evening, grandma to see daughter-in-law and granddaughter, confined center can eat good meal was served, the two female relatives to communicate with each other, I can go out with girlfriends dinner, take care of a nursing daughter can be so relaxed and happy, whether maternal, or both sides of the parents, was spent in the relaxed happy atmosphere. It's a wonderful thing.


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